Take good care of your baby


Baby massage

Baby massage has been practiced since ancient
times. It can be as simple as a gentle rubHere are a few tips on making the massage a
with lotion after a bath or a more practicedpleasant  experience:
infant massage. The benefits are many for
both  baby  and  parent.Tell your baby what you are doing and ask for
permission: “Would you like Mommy to
Benefits  for  your  babygive you a massage?” This sends a
message right from a young age that your
Helps  your  baby  relaxbaby’s  body  belongs  to  her.
Stimulates circulation, digestion andAlways watch your little one for signs of
neurological  developmentenjoyment (smiles, coos, relaxed posture) or
dissatisfaction (turning away, fussing,
Promotes  more  restful  sleepclosing arms, crawling away), and stop if she
seems uncomfortable or restless. If your baby
Improves the efficiency of your baby’sis having a colic episode, then attempt to
immune  systemcalm him with massage before judging his
response to the massage. Sometimes babies
Stimulates your baby’s developingtake a few minutes to adjust, or they may
nervous  systemlike the massage at first but then have had
enough and would like to stop. Respect your
Helps relieve pain of colic, gas, illness andbaby’s  signals.
teething
Put a bit of oil or lotion on your hands and
Promotes  healthy  weight  gainrub them together. Never pour anything
directly  onto  your  baby.
Enhances  sensory  awareness
Use  warm  hands  when  touching  your  baby.
Stimulates  growth-promoting  hormones
Use a gentle touch, but not so light that it
Provides baby with much-loved touch andtickles your baby — about the same
connectionpressure you would use on your eyelids
without causing any discomfort. On small
Increases bonding and attachment between babyareas of your baby’s body, use your
and  parentfingertips; on larger areas like his back,
use  the  palms  of  your  hands.
Provides premature and special needs babies
with  immense  physiological  benefitsAs a general rule, strokes should move from
the center of your baby’s body
Benefits  for  parentsoutward; for example, when massaging arms, go
from  shoulders  out  to  hands.
Builds  your  confidence  in  baby  handling
Keep your movements balanced; if you massage
Provides you with an opportunity to becomethe  left  arm,  then  also do the right arm.
more competent in reading your baby’s
cuesIf your baby is a newborn, don’t
massage near the umbilical cord or the
Gives you a special, focused time with yourcircumcision site (if your baby has been
babycircumcised).
Deepens  the  bond  between you and your babyDon’t forget to massage those teeny
feet — a delightful experience for any
Provides you with a tool for calming andparent!
settling  your  baby
Start with a short session at first, no more
Gives parents of premature babies or babiesthan about five minutes. Over time, lengthen
with special needs a way to bond with andyour massage sessions to 20 or 30 minutes,
help  their  babybasing the length of time on your
baby’s  signals  of  enjoyment.
Provides parents with an effective way to
settle  a  fussy  or  colicky  babyDon’t massage your baby if she has a
fever, has just had an immunization or is
Gives parents a loving way to introduce aill.
sibling  to  a  new  baby
Read  your  baby’s  signals
Allows you to enjoy the feel of your
baby’s  miraculous  little  bodyVery young babies or those who are new to
massage are often uncertain about it. Vary
It’s  massage  time!the pressure and location of your touch
depending on your baby’s reactions.
You can massage your baby at any time and inWatch your baby’s face and body
any place. Most babies love to be touchedlanguage for feedback. This is a learning
— and most parents love to touch theirexperience  for  both  of  you
babies — so anytime you feel like
rubbing your baby, you should. In addition toWhat  about  siblings?
casual touches, you can also plan for a more
organized massage as well. A massage is aHere’s a wonderful experience for your
wonderful way to end a bathing session, beginolder child and baby alike: Teach big brother
or  end  the bedtime ritual or start the day.or sister how to massage the baby. This can
create a special bond between them and can
Here are some guidelines to prepare for apromote soft and gentle touches. Massage time
peaceful  baby  massage:for your baby is often a perfect time to
massage your older child, too. As your baby
Choose a time when you won’t begets a little older, he’ll probably
interrupted  or  rushed.want his turn at massaging his older sibling.
Few things are more special for a parent than
Make sure that your baby isn’t toowatching siblings treat each other with
hungry  (or  too  full).gentle loving care, and this kind of ritual
is perfect for encouraging sibling
If your baby is colicky, choose the time justattachment.
before  crying  usually  begins.
At  what  age  should  massage  begin?
Choose a warm room (at least 75ºF/
23.9ºC) without any drafts. Depending onYou can, and should, massage a child of any
how warm the room is, you may want to keepage from newborn to adulthood. Children learn
your baby covered with a small blanket duringmuch about the power of gentle touch. My son
the massage, leaving out the body parts thatDavid knows how wonderful a massage can be,
you  are  massaging.and when he was eight years old, he gave me a
nightly back massage throughout my pregnancy
Leave your baby in as little clothing aswith his baby brother. (Yes, every night
conditions permit — a diaper or— isn’t that sweet?) All of my
nothing at all. (Keep something handy toolder children love to be rubbed;
cover up that diaper area fast, just inthere’s something very special about
case!)spending a little time giving your teenager a
backrub or foot massage. It maintains a
If you and your baby would enjoy it, playbeautiful parent-child connection throughout
some soft music, or use the time to talk toa  lifetime.
and  sing  to  your  baby.
What  about  baby  massage  classes?
Lay your baby on a soft towel or blanket on
the floor or on a bed. A small baby can lieMany hospitals and private organizations
skin-to-skin on your stomach or across youroffer baby massage classes. These are
legs.beneficial because a certified infant massage
instructor can show you all the
Have warm baby lotion or oil ready, if youhow-to’s, step by step. An instructor
wish to use one of these. Choose oils madecan give you a hands-on demonstration and
especially for babies, when possible. Avoidanswer your questions to help you feel
nut-based oils, like peanut and almond, toconfident in this very gentle and soothing
avoid the risk of allergic reactions. Andart. Remember that massage and touch is an
avoid having oils on or next to yourexperience that is exclusive between the
baby’s face and hands (since they mayparent and baby; the instructor will help you
likely find their way to your baby’slearn how to read your baby and how to use
mouth).the art of massage.



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