Baby Names - Choosing Trendy or Traditional

Popular baby names for girls and boys and how theyWhen I attended grad school, of a class of
have changed over the years plus tips for choosingapproximately forty students, there were no less than
one for your baby.three baby boomers named Barbara. Should I thank
Lists of baby names are always fun to look at,the actress Barbara Stanwyck for this ? Alas, my first
whether you're seeking a name for yourname later suffered a slow, steady decline and placed
soon-to-be-born baby boy or baby girl, wonderingat a pitiful number 628 position on the baby names
about the popularity of your own first name, or justpopularity list for the U.S. in 2003.
curious about what baby names are currently hot.Robert, on the other hand, has survived the vicissitudes
What I find particularly interesting is tracking theof baby name popularity. It held a coveted spot on the
popularity of baby names over the decades. In lookingtop ten most popular baby names list every year from
through U.S. government baby name lists from 1880 to1896 to the late 1980s, often peaking at number 1
the present, some amusing patterns emerge,between the 1920s and the 1950s. It has gradually
particularly in regards to baby names for girls.slipped since the 1990s, but still managed to hold the
For example, in Victorian times Biblical names, such asrespectable slot of number 35 in 2003.
Mary, Sarah and Ruth were very popular for babyWhen naming a baby there are, of course, many other
girls. There were also many baby names that soundedpoints to consider besides how popular or unique a
very old-fashioned to me, as a kid growing up in thename is. Here are some helpful tips that you can use
1960s, including names like Martha, Alice, Bertha andwith your other children to get them involved in
Minnie.choosing a name for the new baby and to make the
From the 1920s to the 1950s certain baby names roseprocess fun:
in popularity. For example, I went to school with many1. Baby names need to go nicely with the sound of
Susans, Debbies, Patricias, and Lindas. All of theseyour last name. Also, pick a first name and a middle
baby names have since waned, to be replaced, by thename that go together well. (So maybe not something
1980s, with fancier names such as Jennifer, Jessicalike Erasmus Beelzebub Smith !)
and Nicole. When I was a children's librarian in the2. When your family finds a name you all like, look at
1980s my preschool storyhours were populated withthe initials to be sure that you don't give the new baby
little girls named Lauren and Jenny, and little boysa name with initials that will make people laugh. (So
named Alex and Matthew.maybe not Pamela Iris Green, which equals P.I.G. !)
More recently there's been a lot of renewed interest in3. You might not want a baby name that is so unusual
more "old-fashioned" baby names like Hannah, Abigailthat the other kids will make fun of your little brother or
and Ethan, plus many Biblical names such as Sarah,sister as he or she grows up. (So maybe not Rosebud
Rachel, Joshua, Jacob, and Samuel. There's also beenor Molasses !)
a surge in nontraditional baby names including Madison,4. You also might not want a baby name that is so
Ashley and Brianna for baby girls, and Brandon andtrendy that it will sound funny by the time the baby is
Logan for baby boys.ten years old. (So maybe not Sunshine !)
It's interesting to consider the whys and wherefores of5. You probably shouldn't pick a name that's really cute
such developments. Sometimes, I suspect, thefor an adorable little baby but will sound silly when the
popularity of a specific actor or fictional characterbaby grows up. (So maybe not Dimples !)
might result in many babies with a particular name. For6. Avoid baby names that might produce insulting
example, were some of the Lauras born in the 1970snicknames when people shorten them. (So maybe not
and 1980s given a name suggested by older brothersSmellonius, or Smelly for short !)
and sisters who were growing up watching "Little7. You and your family might not want a name that is
House on the Prairie ?" Were some attributable to theso hard to spell or to pronounce that people will
super popular Laura of "General Hospital" fame ?always get it wrong and your poor little brother or
Today Madison is a very highly ranked baby name forsister will have to go through life correcting people. (So
girls (ranking number 3 in 2003) but, when the filmmaybe not something like Incandescence, or is it
"Splash" came out in 1984, Tom Hanks' character toldIncandessints ? )
Daryl Hannah's character that Madison was not a8. You and your family might want to pick baby names
bona fide first name.in honor of favorite relatives or ancestors, or special
While baby girls' names seem quite subject to thenames that show your family's ethnic roots. You might
whims of fashion and the top ten lists can changeeven find a special name from a book or movie that
radically over time, I've noticed that, in general, the topyou love. (Like Harry ?)
baby names for boys remain far more stable. Names9. You might want to look through books of baby
like John, William and James are perennials, perhapsnames and pick one that has a special meaning that
because baby boys are often named for their fathers,you like - maybe something that means "sweet" or
perpetuating the popularity of certain baby names"kind" or "brave." (So maybe not wimp !)
from generation to generation. The "Junior" factor10. You might want to think about names that will go
aside, baby boys are also less apt to be given fancifulnicely with your name and your other brothers' and
names.sisters' names, so that if mom or dad are calling you all
A comparison of the changing fortunes of my ownfor dinner or signing a birthday card to grandma it
first name, Barbara, with those of my husband's name,won't sound too crazy.
Robert, gives a good illustration of the difference in(So maybe not "Happy Birthday, Grandma ! Love,
stability between baby girl names and baby boyJoey, Cindy and Dweevo !")
names over time.There are hundreds of names waiting for you out
My name grew in popularity in the 1930s, '40s and '50s,there. Visit Popular Baby Names Across Space and
peaking at the number 2 position in baby nameTime for lists of many of them. Good luck on your
popularity, which it tenaciously held from 1937 to 1944.search for the perfect name !