Help! My Baby Is Crying!

"Why does my Baby cry? What can I do?"frantic and loud) before they can fall asleep. Therefore,
Every new mum and dad ask themselves franticallyif you know there is more activities ahead in the
when their newborn cry. Most parents with newbornscoming day (traveling or festive season with lots of
carry the expectation that being good parents meanother people in the house), you may have to try to
having happy babies all the time (Smiling babies is whattailor the sleeping times to suit the day's activities.
everyone usually see in all the baby magazines...)And naturally, if your baby is unwell, she will cry.
The reality is that babies have to cry.Sometimes this is as simple as too much heat or
Remember: Crying is the first form of baby talk. Cryingcoldness in the room. If she feels too warm or too
is a normal event in the lives of all babies. When acold, she becomes restless and she will cry. Babies
baby comes out of the womb, the first thing she doesneed to rest comfortably in a room with good
is cry.ventilation.
It is the only way your baby communicates with youIf it is sickness like a cold with nasal blocking, your baby
from the start. She (let's assume this is a baby girl)will not be able to sleep well and will go on crying till the
may be hungry ;she may be wet; she may be toopassage for better breathing is opened.
warm or too cold; she may be just bored....There areOr it can be a case of nappy rash when a tight and
many reasons why babies cry and it will not be longwet nappy is kept her for a long time. For some
for you to distinguish between the different cries. Asbabies, rash can also be caused by some allergic
you and your baby get to know each other, you willreaction to the elastic material of the nappy. When the
sometimes be able to tell the difference betweenrash appears it causes soreness and she become
each kind of crying. You can then try to give her whatsleepless and cry.
she needs.Constipated babies with hard stools may cry when
Taking care of your baby when she cries will not spoilthey get the urge for stool. Some babies will hesitate
her. It will help your baby feel loved and secure. Smile,to pass stool because of pain. Therefore it is important
touch and talk to your baby as often as possible. Doto ensure your baby has regular bowel movements.
this when you feed her, change her diaper or give herThat being said, I think almost all babies will have some
a bath. Your baby will learn that she can rely on you tofretful moments during the early weeks, though some
take care of her.babies can be excessively fretful. We may not really
One of the common causes why babies cry is hunger:know are the causes, indigestion or irritability, and
sometimes even if it seems you have just fed yourthough this may not be a serious issue, this is definitely
baby, she could still be hungry. Whether you aregoing to create a lot of stress for you! Go ahead and
feeding your baby on a fairly regular schedule ortry a few things - a pacifier between feedings, tug
according to her desire, you will soon get a good ideayour baby snugly in a blanket, and if possible, go for a
what her feeding pattern is like. There are certaincar ride, it works like magic for fretful babies. You can
times in the day she wants more to eat, this shouldalso try to play some light music. Make soft noises,
help you to decide the unusual crying is due to hunger.such as cooing, to let your baby know you are there
If she stops crying after another feed, you will knowand you care. Talk to your baby. This helps to calm
she is trying to tell you that she is hungry. However,your baby down.
sometimes if your baby cries after feeding, it can beBut sometimes despite all your efforts, your baby
due to indigestion. Babies swallow air, and then theymight just cry more than others do.
suffer from wind, just like anyone else. Do burp yourDon't despair and be too hard on yourself, it is
babies regularly to expel swallowed air. There are aimportant to give yourself a deserved break. Try to
few checks you can do to lessen the problem - checkarrange for someone to mind her a few hours, or
the teat hole, too big a teat hole can cause too mucheven a few minutes will do you good. You might be
air intake while feeding. Also you can try to hold yoursurprised to know some babies can sense the tension
baby upright as much as possible during burping. Thisin their parents, and in turn they cannot relax
helps to expel swallowed air too.themselves too. Therefore it is important for you (and
Fatigue is another common causes why baby cry.for your spouse and your baby too) to make effort to
When young babies have been awake for unusuallyleave the house for a few hours at least once a
long while or they have been over stimulated (beingweek so that you will not get too exhausted or even
with strangers, by being in a strange place), they candepressed. Your baby does not need two worried
become irritable and tired. They might cry a little earlierparents to listen to her at the same time.
or later than the normal nap schedule. Instead of beingRemember, do your best to keep a sense of balance
easier for them to fall asleep after a busy day, it may(though this may sound like an impossible task ) by not
be even harder. If you try to comfort them with moreputting 100% of your time on your newborn as
playing, more talk, it may make matters worse. Someultimately this will help your baby and the rest of your
young babies may just have to cry (the crying can befamily in the long run.