| Baby sickness - is always a hard trial
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| | in. So, first of all you should analyze
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| for family, and if the matter concerns
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| | your own emotions and forget about
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| baby's hospitalization, then you can
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| | affirmation: "Hospital - pain, fear,
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| become panic-stricken only at the thought
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| | danger". Replace it by "Hospital - help,
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| of the fact that a baby will be estranged
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| | relieve, recovery". You confidence and
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| from his family, painful procedures
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| | peace of mind will be passed to your
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| expect him, and strangers will surround
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| | daughter and son. Talk to your child
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| him.
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| | about coming hospitalization
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| Because of hospitalization, a baby can
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| | softly-softly. You can explain to
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| get the whole complex of serious
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| | schoolchild, that sickness is not a
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| psychological problems, caused by
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| | catastrophe, but a peculiar exam for
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| sickness, isolation from home and
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| | courage and firmness. Tell your child
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| conditions of hospital. Even adult person
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| | that you will be thinking of him
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| experiences stress, when he needs to
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| | constantly and you're always ready to
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| apply to a doctor and moreover, while
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| | help him. Think and discuss ways of your
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| necessity of long staying in hospital.
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| | contacts.
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| Needless to say about baby's stress!
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| | During separation avoid touching scenes,
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| Strange atmosphere, strange people, new,
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| | restrain excessive emotions. Try to
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| constantly renewed children collective,
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| | behave the way, so that a baby would
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| forced separation from parents, fear of
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| | treat hospital not as punishment, but as
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| medical procedures - all this is quite
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| | a place, where he will be helped to
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| enough for psychological discomfort. And
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| | recover sooner and return to usual life.
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| all these factors accompany symptoms of
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| | Form positive attitude, both to
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| disease.
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| | improvement of health and doctors' work.
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| However, you shouldn't dramatize
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| | Explain your child an objective necessity
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| situation. Of course, disease and
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| | of medical assistance.
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| necessity of hospitalization - are
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| | Don't persuade him that he is guilty of
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| traumatizing factors. But for majority
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| | his sickness, trauma etc. himself. By
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| of children staying at hospital can
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| | doing this, you will increase sense of
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| become an important stage in formation of
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| | guilt and fear, which can cause
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| personality, bring lots of new
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| | undesirable psychological complications.
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| impressions and knowledge, and give
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| | Of course, there're situations, when it
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| possibility to try themselves in
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| | is important to discuss wrong behavior of
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| difficult life circumstances. This
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| | a child, which caused disease. But it is
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| experience will be useful in further life
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| | also very important that a result of your
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| of a child.
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| | conversation would be not a sense of
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| Processes of adaptation are individual
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| | guilt, but understanding of cause and
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| for each child. This depends on many
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| | effect connection between wring behavior
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| reasons: whether he had diseases earlier,
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| | and disease.
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| stage of disease, is he staying at
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| | Discuss schedule of visiting a child with
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| hospital for the first time or not,
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| | relatives for sure, to avoid situations,
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| baby's age, whether he was separated from
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| | when there're several visits per one day
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| his family before etc. Often everything
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| | and no visits at all other day. This is
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| passes quite smoothly, due to presence of
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| | very important, as excess of visitors can
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| inner reserves of a baby and correct
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| | lead to emotional overloads of a sick
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| behavior of parents.
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| | baby, and their absence - to increase of
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| It's quite normal, if period of
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| | longing for home and relatives.
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| adaptation at hospital lasts during 3-5
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| | Try not to hung up on topic of disease
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| days. There're no reasons for anxiety, if
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| | and treatment. Life goes on. Ask your
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| a baby is rather careless during first
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| | child about his new friends, news, what
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| days of hospitalization, asks to take him
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| | he does in spare time. Keep all your
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| home, gets into contact with coevals not
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| | doubts concerning effectiveness of
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| at once. Excess care and parental
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| | treatment inside of you. Don't overload
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| inclination for dramatizing situation can
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| | patient with your doubts and fears. As
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| only damage. On the other hand, you
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| | medicine, which you doubt, will not help,
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| shouldn't leave a baby alone with his
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| | as doctor, whom you don't trust, won't be
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| problems. He shouldn't feel abandoned and
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| | able to help. Try to avoid unpleasant
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| lonely.
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| | topics, wait a little with information
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| Quite often parents of sick children need
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| | about bad news: sick baby need not to
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| more psychological help, then children
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| | know that his favorite doggie eats bad or
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| themselves, as it is their correct
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| | that cat ate hamster. While talking to a
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| behavior that influences a baby's mood
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| | baby, pay attention to positive moments
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| for recovery.
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| | of staying at hospital. Think about
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| Here're several recommendations of
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| | things you can compliment him for: he
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| experts. Never frighten your baby with
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| | bears procedures with fortitude, doesn't
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| hospital. Don't create future problems,
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| | play about, could make friends with
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| as there's hardly any baby, who hasn't
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| | somebody, drew a good picture etc.
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| been at hospital for his life. During
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| | Unfilled spare time increases feeling of
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| conversations with other people avoid
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| | loneliness, longing for home. So you
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| such phrases, like: "There doctors hardly
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| | should definitely worry about things your
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| understand something, I wish only they
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| | child should do. Bring him an interesting
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| don't harm my child" etc.
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| | book, meccano, some new game, paints,
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| In case of baby hospitalization do your
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| | crayons etc. Bring a toy for a small baby
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| best to reduce stress and melancholy
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| | surely. You can tell that a new "friend"
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| because of coming separation from home
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| | came to him specially to protect him at
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| and parents. Adults themselves should be
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| | nights (if a baby is predisposed to night
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| confident in future, calm and wise, so
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| | fears). It will be very good, if you
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| that a baby would treat staying at
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| | bring him a toy bear, elephant, lion,
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| hospital calmly. If hospitalization is
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| | tiger, i.e. any big animal, which will be
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| planned and you have at least 1-2 days
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| | able to personify power and protection
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| for preparation, involve baby in
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| | (size of toy is not important).
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| preparations, as if he would be going to
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| | After discharge talk to your baby about
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| health centre or camp.
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| | time he spent at hospital. Ask him about
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| Try to dispose your baby to optimism.
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| | things he learned to do, what he
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| Children have great intuition, and it's
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| | understood about himself and his
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| almost impossible to persuade them in
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| | relations with other people, help him to
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| things, which you don't believe yourself
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| | realize value of experience he gained.
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